Who said dating nowadays is easy, was lying. It's hard to find a people who you will compatible with. Yeah, you can said it's easy if you just want to hook up. I'm already in one social dating sites for I don't know how long, one of my friend already married with the boy she met online. I'm happy for her, and she always pushes me to find one, she is afraid of me ended up lonely, and thank you for that. But I don't need one more person to remind me why I'm still single. But while I'm on these dating sites, I've meet three boys that I knew in real life who has a relationship but still lurking around in dating sites. #1 The first male friend that I found out lurking in social media, was my high school friends. He and his fiancee was high-school sweethearts, so I know both of them. It's only months away, they will get married, and I found him online. Since I'm not close with both of them, so I just blind side my eye for a while. Probably he was bored and curious before making a big commitment. #2 The second male friend that I found was also in status of somebody's fiance. I still remember correctly that I just saw him proposing to his fiancee just days before. Then I found him on social dating apps. I knew him, and he has a cheating history once. Well, since I know him as my friend, and I don't know his fiancee, so I just let it go. My friends told me probably it's his old account that never got deleted. Well, all I know is if you don't open your account, you wouldn't be showed up. #3
The third male friend is the one that unforgivable. One, he is married to my friend. Second, his marriages was only in May, 7 months a go, and he is already cheating. Third, his wife or my friend is pregnant now. Four, he is definitely ONLINE, so it's not his "account that he forget he has" I told my friends about it (not his wife) that I found my other friend's husband online in social dating apps, they also speechless, but I decided not to meddling in someone else's marriage, because I learned my lesson recently (another story another time). I opened his profile, and he is definitely looking for SEX. He stated his location is Jakarta, well my friend lives in another city, as far as I know. I know they did long distance relationship, but I never asked how it would change after marriage, but I guess I found out it's not changed. Oh yeah,I also found in his social media pages, he never post anything about his wife. And any posts that my friend tagged him was removed. Hmm, really!!?? I meant my friends (#1 and #2)'s social media profiles still contains many picture with their girlfriends / fiancees, but #3 intentionally removed every tag his wife did, that means he does want to cheat, I assume. So, what do you think? I mean, if you are in strong and solid relationship, you would never ever think about chatting someone else in social dating, right? Would you say it's cheating? Well, I say it's cheating. I could forgive #1 and #2 since they're not married yet. But #3, really? While your wife is pregnant?
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